Make up Industry- An Opportunity for Gays

Hi everyone, Sam here! Beauty community is obsessed with gays. why? well you guessed it right, none has better taste than us.

Starting from beauty influencers on YouTube to makeup artist. People from gay community has always found their medium of expression through makeup. For some it is a coping mechanism against the bullying or hateful comments from friends and family members. For centuries Make up has always been a medium of expression be that male or female. Enhancing des external beauty provides mental satisfaction.

Beauty Gurus like Jeffree Star or James Charles are well known faces in beauty industry. Creating products that and promoting them online through platform like YouTube helped to connect with people around the world.

These celebrities made a fortune just by selling the products. How do they convince others to use their products. There is a typical psychology that is used to promote these products. Revealing videos or Reaction videos by popular beauty influencers help them to reach out to public. Wide range of viewers including teens and adults across different shades of gender spectrum are encouraged to use the products and can show their creativity.

In India, Makeup industry is highly dominated by a handful companies. Mostly products are shipped from countries like South Korea or China. Cheap products with very short shelf life helped these companies to create an empire. The business is booming like anything as there are very less awareness and vigilance by the government.

So if you are into makeup or an entrepreneur looking for an idea for business then Indian market is waiting for you.  

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Dildo,ouch!

Hi everyone this is Sam. Dildo, long, short, thick, thin and one of the greatest invention of modern technology. A sex toy only meant to give you pleasure. It doesn’t matter whether you’re a top or bottom you can use it without any hesitation. It’s a boon for those going for bottoming for first time. You must try this!

What is a dildo?

A dildo is a sex toy which has a shape like human penis. It contains everything that a penis can provide except cum. Sometimes it comes with some weird shape and sizes aiming to enhance the pleasure stimulating various internal structures present in anus or vagina. The smoothness enhances the pleasure and it is washable therefore ensures durability.

What is it made up of?

Dildos are typically made up of elastic substances. Silicon is a very commonly used material. A cast of the penis is made and top grade silicon is poured into it while it is still in the liquid state. After it hardens for a considerable amount of time it is unmolded and any rough edges are smoothened out for safety of the delicate areas. High grade plastics are also used sometimes to make it strong and pleasurable.

Types

There is a huge demand of dildos in the market. Different companies are investing huge money in R & D just to come up with something unique. Dildos are not restricted to different sizes and shapes but also including lubes or vibrators. People irrespective of their gender and sexual orientation, are using dildos just to feel the pleasure creating a huge demand in the market.

Things to know before using dildo

Although dildos are meant to give you pleasure it can seriously damage your assets if not proper measures take before using. Some of the precautions include-

• Clean the dildo thoroughly before and after using it ensuring the prevention of any infection from any microbes.

• Beginners must not try to insert bigger size just because you think you can do it. It is a training that requires following a procedure. Any beginner must start the process with a smaller sized dildo rather than a huge one.

• Use plenty of lubes. Lubes make the dildo easy to insert thereby reducing the friction. Friction can lead to inflammation, damage in the rectum and even blood loss.

• Avoid forceful insertion of the dildo. This is highly discouraged as it may tear up the anus (asshole).

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Why do you Need a Lover Right Now!

Hi everyone its Sam here. Pandemic has taught us a lot of things. Starting from being a cook to appreciate family and friends, something which we often take as granted. For those who managed to have a partner or lover before quarantine congratulations but for those who are still waiting for his/her soulmate here's some reasons why you need a lover right now.

#Understanding each other 

One thing that this pandemic has made me realize that how small our lives are. We are always at the mercy of mother nature. Racing after success is what we have been doing that made us to sacrifice living our lives. Compromising feelings, emotions for each other has made us a machine. An understanding partner always tries to maintain the personal and social life together. There are several times when we face any problem and can't think properly our partner's helping hand saves the day.

#Developing a deep rooted connection

In committed relationship it is very important to put sufficient amount of effort to develop a connection with people who are very close to your partner. This seeds the base for developing a deep rooted connection. Taking care and investing time and effort to develop a good relationship with friends and family may give other the sense of safety and security.

#Working together on issues

It is universal that we all face problems in relationship. It is the way how we deal with the problems. We must know that all of us are different with difference in our mentality and opinion. Showing ego will complicate the problems even more which can easily be avoided if both the partners can work together. Respecting other's opinion even we agree or not is very important. Developing patience to listen, discussing just like a team with each other can solve the problems.

# Meaningful Sex

Generation X is all about sex. Well none can deny that and the fact is you can have sex as much as you would like. But having a meaningful sex with your lover satisfies not only your physical needs but also your mental demands which casual sex can never fulfil. Sex plays a very important part in developing relationship and relive mental distress. 

Why Education system needs to change for LGBTQ children?

Hi everyone this is Sam here. Education is something that most of us take as granted. It gives shape to one's dream, support to stand on one's own feet and moulds our behavior and perspectives. It is very essential for proper development of a person who is responsible enough to think about others. Removal of any sort of bias with logical and rational thinking is what education aims for. But when it comes to gender issues education takes a very unusual stand. Why? Why education and educationists or educational psychologists often fail to understand the issues of LGBTQ children?

To find out the answer we need to dig deep. Education starts way before a child starts to talk or understand the meaning of a word. Study shows that children start learning as early as prenatal stage, that is before birth. A new born child isn't an empty vessel as they are well aware of  their surroundings.

Recognition of mother's voice or even songs can trigger learning during pregnancy. As we grow up, we start learning terms which are either taught or frequently used by family members. The sense of gender comes much later. Gender sense gives an idea about gender role, that is things specifically assigned to a bou or a girl. Stereotyping gender is also taught informally by family and formally by institutions or schools. 

On average a child spends about 6-7hours at school for a very long time in his/her lifetime. The growth and development that takes place in these years lead to raise a lot of questions most of which remains unanswered.

For a very long time LGBTQ is considered as taboo and still there are plenty of countries kept this thought hydrated. Children having different sexual preferences often become a subject of public humiliation or violence. Adolescents are more prone to find out the answers of such questions either through experiments or addiction. Addiction can range from using alcohol, drug, smoke to porn. Mental health deteriorates along with physical health.

Our education system is highly influenced by a handful of people who are in power. This gives them the opportunity to control over everything that first generation learners learn in school. LGBTQ is always considered as minority and burden to the society which failed to set an example for these children due to lack of social recognition. Orthodox mentality of older generation fails to understand such issues and paints children's lives in their colors. 

The development of any nation depends upon its youth. If they are not given the opportunity to take their decision then how will they take responsibilities in life? Constitution provides the freedom, not being judged by our gender or sexuality then why society fails to understand that? Education can change this scenario, provide the answers of these questions. It's time to recognize us as HUMAN being, a citizen of this country and not treated as second class citizens.

Took 65 years to come out

Hi everyone, this is Sam. Trans genders have always been a part of our society kept hidden from the eyes. Our culture teaches us to question anything that doesn't fall under our knowledge.  It doesn't show any mercy and can become cruel to those who goes against it. Fear of losing everything. How much it can affect us?

 

If you want to know the answer you must know about Catilyn Jenner aka Bruce Jenner. It took him 65 years to accept himself and express his true identity as Woman.

Bruce, being a child with dyslexia had hard time to focus on study. Bruce Jenner happens to be one of the world's best athlete. His career in sports started with receiving scholarship that he couldn't continue due to his knee injury. He was advised to go for track rather than football or basketball by his coach. He participated in Decathlon in 1972 and secured 10th place. In 1976, he became a world champion in Olympics.

Our society portrays a different picture for people like him- macho, full of manliness, success and money. As a result he was married with Chrystie Crownover and had two children.

As he was focused more into sports to get away from the guilt and fear about his fame and career their marriage didn't last. Linda Diane Thompson came into his life as the second woman and they had two children. Linda came to know about her husband's true identity.

Although she was kind of shocked to know about his husband's obsession with women clothes, it was Bruce's first reveal about his long lost identity which he kept safe for years. The two got separated but Linda kept his secret within her and kept her promise.

By this time Bruce was broke when he met Kris Jenner  on a blind date and they got hitched within 5 months. Kris took care of his financial crisis and the two initiated many businesses together.

Kris already had three 4children (Kourtney, Kim, Khloé and Robert Kardashians )  from her first marriage. Kris and Bruce had two daughters, Kendall Jenner and Kylie Jenner. According to Bruce, he was quite surprised to became a father with two daughters while he was on hormone therapy. Keeping up with Kardashians was a great success that also brought out a lot of secrets that Bruce didn't want to reveal. In 2013,  Bruce decided to separate from Kris and on the following year they filed divorce.

In 2015 Bruce finally decided to come out and express his true self. on an interview with Diane Sawyer, he openly talked about his life and 65 years of struggle as a transgender.

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How much does it take to accept one's own self? Apparently a lot, at least for a person who is still in closet. A gay person who is afraid of his secrets, tries to find a sense of love and affection from his community and our community don't show any mercy towards these people. Forcing them to come out, bashing them publicly or humiliating further breaks the person morally. These people when gets married, is forced to prove his manliness. Domestic violence is one such result of showing off dominance. Thus being a part of this family, we need to change our mind, reassess our perspectives so that people feel comfortable to their own skin. Together we can bring the change that unites us because one thing that we lack nowadays is  nothing but unity.

Transphobia

Hi guys it's Sam here. Transgenders are one of the greatest warriors in LGBTQ community. By definition transgenders are those who are born with one of the socially recognized sexes but identify or would like to identify themselves with opposite sex. 

#Why transgenders are considered as warriors?

Gender is a social construct and until one understands the gender concept, it becomes harder  to identify himself/herself as male or female. Our biological sex determines the gender role to be played by us. For example man is considered as a provider and women is supposed to take care of her family members. But what about those who don't fall into these stereotype categories?

For them this creates confusion. People with gender confusion are generally called as gender incongruence. Transgender people have a gender identity or gender expression that differs from their sex assigned at birth. A transgender fails to fit in the society because of lack of options available for them.

The confusion grows much more as the child grows with changes in his/her physiology along with psychology. This utter confusion may hit a child hard and he/she finds himself/herself emersed in depression and to some extent suicidal. When your body doesn't match with your mentality it often leads to oppression of your feelings and countless failure attempts to be someone which you're not. Teasing, abusing (both verbally or physically) right from a very tender age trying to prevent from expressing their view about gender seeds the hate. Parents, teachers or people who has nothing to do with us feelsoffended with behavior, lifestyle. You are nothing but a "Whore". Rejection, deprivation, ignorance honours your crown. Every decision that you take is a subject of discussion for everyone as if our life is at their mercy. 

Bullying at school and public, calling by different names are some of awards we receive throughout our life time.

#How Transphobia is born?

A phobia is a psychological condition that makes one to react or behave in a certain way when encountered. Trans-phobia typically indicates a strong reaction (usually negative) against a person who expresses himself or herself as a Transgender.

#What is the Psychology behind trans-phobia?

Society always plays the major role in developing hatred, disgust or violence. Orthodox families don't accept the changes that people like transgender strive for. Parents teach their child to restrict themselves within the norms of the society. Apparently it's supposed to make one more "normal" and socially acceptable. The effect of such mentality can be corrosive. It prevents us to accept and embrace something that challenges their traditional beliefs. 

#How do we change this?

Curiosity is something that all human possess inherently. The curiosity to know more about the unknown can encourage one educating one's own self resulting into the expansion of the horizon of mental circle by building an egalitarian society where people are not categorised based on their GENDER  and discrimination has no place.