Relationship, the best thing if you have it and if you don't you are a wuss. Well this is what people think if you are a straight. But how does gay relationship works? And why don't we see more stabililty in gay relationship than the straight?
Let me start by saying that the problem is "US". But the question that follows with that is how? and why? To explain this we need to understand the social concept of our development. We don't choose what we believe and what not right from a very tender age. Right from our childhood everything that we do or don't, likes or dislikes are strongly influenced by our culture and tradition taught by our family members.
So if one decides to come out of these finds himself or herself in a dilemma. It's almost universal "either me or family". Taking decision is nothing less than a Herculean task. People with strong mentality can go for the first and rest remorse till the death. Question is, what does that have to do with relationship? You can't have a relationship with one person. When we are in a relationship we tend influence the other person same way that we've been brought up. This is the spark that can potentially burn the bond built over a long time. The relationship bites into the dust and hatred is born.
How do we get out of this situation? Well the easiest way is to accept each other as it is without even trying to change the other. A sense of respect not only for the person but also for his/her culture is the key to establish a meaningful relationship on the basis of understanding.
Please let me know what you guys think the biggest cause of unstable relationship in the comments.
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